Ten years after Nigerian singer Abolore Akande popularly known as 9ice ended his marriage, his ex-wife, Tony Payne has revealed her heart has been broken just one time and it was 9ice.
She made this revelation while responding to a trend on Twitter, ‘worst heartbreaks’.
She revealed she, however, does not regret the union as it gave her a lovely son.
According to her, there will be lesser stories of heartbreak if people in relationships will learn to be truthful and avoid deceits.
“I’ve only had my heart broken only once… nothing to tell really because I got a wonderful and amazing son out of it and I’d get my heart broken a million times just for him. My disappointment was a blessing in disguise,” Payne tweeted.
“Well, no one ever prays to be heartbroken but I believe everything worked out for the best. We were not designed for each other and it took maturing and growth to figure that out. No one that is for you will ever put you through what I went through.
“I’m a lover and an avid communicator. I don’t break hearts, they break themselves.”
“There would be less heartbreak if people are just honest with themselves and each other. That thing you are trying to avoid by lying is what usually hurts most. Deception is a hard pill to swallow, especially if you didn’t expect it. Honesty through it all softens the blow,” she tweeted.
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